Gain pleasure. Avoid pain. That’s pretty much what we’re wired for.
But is there more to life? Will Edwards considered the question and
realized that there is. He realized that we need to wake up to our life
purpose and dedicate ourselves to fulfilling it. That’s the only way
we’ll live to the full. In 7 Keys to Success, he discusses what it takes to do just that:
1. Commitment
Most of us simply exist from one day to the next instead of really
living. “To succeed, you must have a dream… and you must completely
commit yourself to its ultimate fulfillment,” Edwards writes. The dream
can be as big as you want as long as it’s your dream and not someone
else’s.
2. An Open Mind
Once you’ve committed yourself to achieving your dream, the world
will start helping you achieve it. But this only happens if your mind is
open to see and experience this: “When you carry your own dream within,
you too will be able to touch the hearts and minds of the people around
you in much the same way; and it is a truly wonderful and uplifting
experience when you find out for yourself that the universe does indeed
help you to achieve your goal.”
3. Persistence
We can achieve even the biggest goals as long as we keep the end in
mind and keep taking action to get there. No matter how tough things
were in the past or our much we struggle in the present, persistence
gives us power: “When you meet an obstacle, as you inevitably will,
persistence determines what you will do; whether you will give up or
keep going. Persistence is what gets you back on your feet, dusted down
and ready to go again.”
4. Flexibility
If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’ve
got. The only way to get different results is to change the approach
from what isn’t working to what is. That’s where flexibility comes in:
“Whilst persistence is an important quality, persistence without
flexibility can indeed be futile because, without some flexibility in
your approach, you could end up trying to move an immovable object for
the rest of your life.”
5. Faith
Instead of pursuing their big dreams, most people settle for less.
Somewhere along the line they were convinced by the world that following their passion
wasn’t possible. And now they’re on a mission to discourage you too:
“That’s why you need faith – a deep-down belief that, regardless of the
evidence, you are going to make it! You are going to achieve what you
have set out to accomplish. You are going to make a difference in this
life.”
6. Thankfulness
“Thankfulness is fundamentally related to positivity and negativity,”
Edwards explains. “It is so much easier to be positive about your life
and the things that are going on in it right now when you are grateful.”
If you’re reading this, you’ve definitely got a number of things to be
thankful for. By constantly reflecting on them (perhaps in a gratitude
journal), you become a more cheerful person, which makes other people
more likely to support you and your efforts.
7. Passion
In the past, many people were too busy making a living to spend much
time pursuing ‘higher needs’. But with all the opportunities of modern
life, we can and should go further: “Deep within your heart, there is a
desire, the pursuit of which will bring you all the happiness, success
and fulfillment you really want. To find your passion is to identify
your own unique purpose in life… You can achieve whatever you want. You
can be the person you were meant to be; and you can really live the life
of your dreams. Those are bold statements but they are true; and more
and more people are discovering this wonderful truth for themselves.”
Isn’t it about time you discovered it too?
Conclusion
The principles in this book are not remarkably new and the dictionary
definitions at the start of every section seem a little out of place.
The tendency for the points to spill into each other was also a little
distracting. But the inspiring stories in every section were a nice
touch.
In any case, it’s always good to be reminded that life can be
whatever we want it to be: “Do not make the mistake of believing that
life holds no purpose for you. Remember that you are here only once.
This is your life – right now! So make sure you live the life you were
born to live.”
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