"We make guilty of our disasters the sun, the moon, and stars;” –Shakespeare
In Shakespeare’s time, people blamed the stars for their problems.
Today scientists tell us either that our brain has been pre-programmed
by evolution, or shaped by our environment, or both, and therefore
operates on auto-pilot. According to all of this, we are not responsible
for our actions or our personalities.
“No basis for discussion can be found with anyone who believes that mind and brain are separate” says neurologist Mark Hallet in a recent article.
I like to read about the brain. It is relevant to my work in
education. I compare what I read to my own experience. Life may be full
of illusions, but I like my illusions, especially those that work for
me.
Unlike Hallet, I do separate my mind from my brain. I talk to myself
and I tell my brain what to do. I think that my conscious desires and
intentions influence the activity of my brain.
As a child of 10 or so, I admired my father’s ability to wiggle his
ears. I wanted very badly to do the same. At first I could not. So I
just sat there for hours, sometimes while watching television, just
telling my brain to get going and start moving my ears. Eventually the
brain gave in. I succeeded, through will power, in training my brain.
Certainly genetics and circumstances have influenced my personality
and my values. If I had not seen my father wiggle his ears, I would
probably still be unable to do so. Maybe I am genetically preconditioned
to be stubborn. I know full well that my brain was not born a “clean
slate”, and that family, friends and culture have influenced who I am.
But I still feel I am in control of what I do.
The Stoic philosopher Epictetus said; “In our power are conception,
effort, desire, aversion and… our actions.” On the other hand, success,
health, wealth and reputation are outside our control, so Epictetus said
not to worry about them.
However, for most people, success matters. The desire for
self-improvement is usually aimed at achieving success, or better health
or some similar goal. But most of us have trouble following through on
good advice.
It is not enough to know that we should avoid rich foods,
or exercize more, or be neat, or set priorities. Somehow we have to get
our brain to cooperate, since our brain often seems to have a mind of
its own, preventing us from changing our habits.
To change our habits we first need to stop blaming ourselves and
start working on our brain. We can influence the workings of our brain
with our will power. Our brain is not hard-wired. Neuro-plasticity is
the scientific term for the fact that our brain is constantly adapting
and changing and recreating itself. Our determination and intent are
forms of neural activity that influence the brain. Our conscious self
can impose its will on the brain.
In “The Mind and the Brain“,
Jeffrey M. Schwartz, a research psychiatrist at UCLA, outlines his
theory and clinical experience of how will power can overcome Obsessive
Compulsive Disorder (OCD).
The first step for Schwartz’s patients is to recognize that a
behavior pattern exists as a network of neural activity, independently
of the their will. It is not the patient that has a bad habit, it is the
brain. The brain has to be brought to heel, to be trained. This is done
with concentrated intent and determination. That is what I did when I
trained my brain to wiggle my ears.
Schwartz describes four steps in helping people overcome such
compulsive needs as the desire to wash their hands every five minutes.
His four steps are called Relabel, Reattribute , Refocus,and Revalue,
and consist of:
- Understanding the problem as a faulty pattern in the brain.
- Separating this pattern from any sense of self-guilt.
- Focusing on actions that replace the undesired behavior.
- Changing how the undesirable behavior is valued.
In other words, you train yourself not to binge on chocolate sundaes
or procrastinate any more, and your brain develops a new value system
that no longer rewards that activity.I have found it comforting and
effective to see my bad habits, not as the disappointing proof of my
weakness, but as objective neural activity that I can train my brain to
change, if my desire is strong enough. I have found intent and will
power important in all learning activities, even at my age. It is never
too late to learn new skills or to challenge old habits!
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