How are some people able to effortlessly lead and inspire others,
whilst other meet with constant criticism and failure? What are the
qualities that we should look for in potential leaders? If you ever
find yourself in the position to offer leadership, what are the factors
that will help you lead more effectively?
The following characteristics will help you estimate the leadership ability of others and become a better leader yourself.
Inspire not Command.
“A leader is best when people barely know he exists, when his work is
done, his aim fulfilled, they will say: we did it ourselves.” – Lao Tsu
The best leader will inspire his followers. He will lead, yet people
will not feel that they are being led. If you direct people through
issuing proclamations and directives, you will come up against
opposition and resistance. The most effective leadership is to help
others feel they are working from their own initiative. To inspire your
fellow workers in this way, it is necessary to lead by example and offer
encouragement where appropriate.
Have Confidence and Belief.
Confidence and belief are essential for effective leadership. The
nature of the human mind is to doubt and expect the worst. Unless a
leader can maintain a clear vision of where he wishes to go, others will
not follow. If a leader has an iron will and tremendous self belief, he
can can inspire others very powerfully to pursue the ideal.
Be willing to admit Mistakes.
A good leader needs the strength to ignore criticism. However, many
leaders make the mistake of thinking this means that they can never
admit they are wrong. Actually, this stubbornness is usually the result
of their own ego. They don’t want to admit their mistakes because they
feel this would make them look stupid.
However, to persist with the
wrong strategy, just to try and prove yourself correct, is the worst
thing a leader can do. A leader should ignore his ego and change course
if events prove different to expectations. People appreciate a leader
who can admit his mistakes, but if you keep making mistakes all the time
people will lose faith in your competence.
Delegate Where Appropriate.
“Leadership: the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it.” -Dwight D. Eisenhower
A good leader cannot do the jobs of several people. A leader who
tries to control absolutely everything, will get bogged down in minor
details. It also displays a lack of confidence in others. People need to
feel valued and given responsibility. A good leader needs to be able to
delegate to the right people and intervene only at critical moments.
Learn From Others.
A good leader should be constantly learning and improving. We should
learn from our mistakes, but also we should read the counsel of experts.
It is a mistake to feel that all we need is a strong will. Good
Leadership requires wisdom and a humility to learn. A leader who thinks
he knows everything, is destined to get into trouble. Leadership and
learning are synonymous.
Sacrifice.
“Only one man in a thousand is a leader of men — the other 999 follow women.” -Groucho Marx
To be a real leader, at times, we need to sacrifice our personal
comforts and desires. A leader needs to be able and willing to put the
interests of his people first. If we are primarily concerned with our
own affairs, it is not possible to be a true and powerful leader.
Emphasise good qualities in others.
The best way to gain the loyalty and support of others is to
appreciate their efforts. This should be sincere and not just at times
when things are going well. A good leader will instinctively seek to
draw out the good qualities of other people. This is much more effective
than trying to point out and correct their weaknesses. A leader will
also take time to offer gratitude for the efforts of others. This is
particularly important at times when things are not going as planned; it
is at times like this that people need appreciation most.
Detached from Criticism.
A good leader is not autocratic, but, at the same time he needs to
have the strength to pursue strategies, even if temporarily unpopular. A
good leader should be able to listen to criticism without getting
emotionally upset.
Humility.
It is a mistake to feel that you are always right. Any display of ego
creates feelings of inferiority and superiority. In the long run, this
undermines your effectiveness as a leader. If you are proved right,
don’t spend time reminding people it was your idea. A good leader, is
concerned with the well being of his project / group, and not with his
personal standing. Also, humility does not mean false modesty, it means
working quietly without demanding recognition and praise; this quality
is quite rare amongst leaders.
Be prepared to Follow.
To learn the art of leadership, we also need to learn the art of
following others. If we can listen to others, people will respond in
similar fashion and will be willing to follow our advice. We cannot
expect to always have others be at our beck and call. If we demand
others always follow us, people will not be attracted to our style of
leadership.
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