Do your friends, spouse or significant other think interest in
productivity is silly, pointless or a waste of time? Then you need help
being productive in a hostile environment.
The corner of the internet occupied by personal productivity blogs
and resources is quite a little community. But it’s sometimes easy to
forget that outside the community there’s a widespread lack of
understanding as to what it’s all about. Many are prone to laugh and
scoff at the whole concept.
For example, my partner can’t understand how I can possibly want to
spend time reading blogs in the niche. Common questions I get are along
the lines of “why don’t you spend less time reading about productivity and more time being productive?” and “did you do the washing up or were you too busy being productive?”
Maybe it’s just me, but I sometimes have a hard time getting across
that I spend time both reading about and doing, that learning about
productivity is both a means to a more productive end and an enjoyable
activity in its own right.
I realized I was clearly losing the battle for hearts and minds and I
fear others may be too. So I’ve come up with five tactics to make
easier the pursuit and practice of productivity in a hostile
environment:
1. Demonstrate Results
There’s a well-documented temptation, especially with productivity
systems, to spend all your time tinkering and tweaking the system rather
than actually getting anything done. I’ve certainly been guilty of
this in the past. But this is a sure recipe for mocking that you’re all
reading and no doing. By having to show what you’ve done to escape the
mocking, the incentive is there to quit procrastinating and get on with
it. This works in the same way as making your commitment public when
trying to break a habit or make a change – the thought of others’
disappointment or gloating really helps to keep you on track.
2. Out of Sight, Out of Mind
I get up early to blog, read my feeds and pursue various other
personal projects. Much easier to firewall time when it’s not under
challenge for being a waste of time that could be better spent on home
improvements.
3. Make it Relevant
If you can pass on something of value from your learnings that gives
you an excellent platform for demonstrating that what you’re doing isn’t
a waste of time. For example, my partner loves the new menu plan I
suggested we adopt. And where do you think that idea came from? The
same goes for your friends, if you can apply something you’ve learned to
a problem they’ve got, your weird little hobby will become more
tangible and less risible.
4. Don’t be Ashamed
When I first started getting into this topic I kept it a secret from
everyone, thinking they’d think it was odd. But remember as long as
you’re confident about it, you can sell anything to anyone: see my post
on how to make your own cool for more details.
5. Draw Comparisons
If you are still having trouble convincing those you wish to, I
suggest changing your approach by drawing comparisons between your
‘waste of time’ and their preferred time wasters. Common time wasters
that can be pointed out include watching rubbish on TV, video games and
reading trash novels. Of course if you’re an avid video game player
yourself, your argument will be somewhat undermined!
I hope some or all of these work for you. If you’ve got any more
theoretical or road tested tactics, please let us know in the comments.
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